You will have BAD SEX, if you dont accept this GIFT!

Hey & Namaste
So many people are doing it so Imma just....ummm.....come right out and say this spiritual piece of wisdom with no lube or sugar.

STOP DOING SHIT FOR OTHER PEOPLE THAT YOU DON'T WANNA DO!

Listen I get it! I was and still am that chick who thinks I should give everything, ask for little and don't accept anything. The mentality is dated and STUPID and stops you from getting your desires spiritually!

Receiving is a feminine energy. (Just in case you don't know men also need feminine energy to balanced) And if you aren't receiving properly you are burned out, bitter, angry and depressed....OH......and you are having bad sex especially if you are a woman. (Spiritual imbalances manifest physically so NO not all men suck in bed...you have a spiritual disorder that wont ALLOW you to enjoy yourself) Lady parts (though some of us have huge balls) are made to receive for a reason.

Before I got the concept that I (And I mean I only.....like masturbation ONLY) am responsible for keeping my love pitcher full....I would give with the hopes someone would give back what I lost. I would give always in the spirit of sacrifice. In my path, Ive realize that quickly leads to resentment and disappointment. (And REALLY BAD SEX....i mean who leaves bite marks on a clit? Its happened to me) Having the constant expectation that people were my personal Genie (The Robin Williams one not "I dream of Genie") is not the life that leads to amazing!

Now, I give from my abundance.....my overflow

How did I get overflow......I love my neighbor AS I LOVE MYSELF. I come first. (In life and in sex now a days) Its not selfish, its me filling up my pitcher so I may love people properly! If your pitcher is dry, then kids get Cabernet drunk parents and spouses get cocaine habit partners and bosses get marijuana high workers and charities....get no one! The amount of fluid in my love pitcher is MY RESPONSIBILITY! And if someone decides to give me some love for my pitcher.....I add it to whats already there, not, have it be my only source from which my self-love flows. The toughest part of this lesson was recognizing when my pitcher was low and saying NO when it was.

NO.....such a powerful word.

No, I cant come over and watch your kids. No, you cant come over because you realize I cooked. No, I cant come to the meeting. No, I cant volunteer for that charity. No, I cant talk right now. No! NO! NO! NOOOOOOO!

If your pitcher is low....say NO and fill up your pitcher. STOP saying yes and thinking that its honorable that you are hating every moment of the favor. You don't look honorable...you look foolish.

How do you fill up your pitcher? Do the things you love. Take a looooong bath! Drink your coffee in peace on the porch! Read your favorite book under a tree! Plant something! Take a dance class! Eat new things! Make your own jewelry! Cook something new! This is how I began to love myself. I canceled alot of my involvement in other peoples lives and got involved in my own life.

I'm just saying.... WHAT RELAXES YOU???? If you don't know, you're not alone but go find out. And I hear you...."I don't have TIME. I have kids. I have a husband/wife/doing this by myself. I have a career" BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH! Oh and a lot of

BULLSHIT!

Theres this thing call TV with lots of educational programs...put those kids in front of Ni Hao Kia Lan, call domino's, order a vegetarian pizza, and grab your kindle and disappear in a movie or book while they learn Chinese.

Thats only one example of solutions. We are strong and smart and we MUST FIND TIME TO FILL OUR PITCHERS! If not, we will give from a place of lack. We will become bitter. We will lose faith and faith is the most important key in deliberate creation of your life. It was a hard lesson to learn to receive love for my pitcher and to find ways to fill my own pitcher. Sometimes I relapse but I put my ass in a nice rehab called an Epsom Salt bath and sing Jill Scott and The Script to the top of my lungs (off key cuz flat notes just makes my heart flutter) and then I'm back. Go find yourself! Love and Freedom.

THERE IS NO SPOON
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